Perfect Imperfections

A Perfect Fall Day, Córdoba, Argentina
A Perfect Fall Day, Córdoba, Argentina

** This is a post the I wrote back in June but for some reason never posted.  So here it is! **

As I was walking home from bringing Daughter#2 at her preschool this afternoon, a 4 km round trip through a beautiful neighborhood on a partly cloudy, crisp early fall day, I kept thinking about the term 'perfection'. What a perfect day. What an amazing experience, walking these residential streets that I walk every day, but being truly present and aware of the beauty.

Truth be told: My music app wasn't working so I was forced to walk without the distraction of a steady beat pumped into my ears.

I breathed deeply, walked smoothly, noticed the leaves falling in the breeze. I picked up the most perfect golden red leaf from the ground... and then noticed its imperfections. The small tear towards the bottom. The spots of brown. It wasn't perfect at all. But what in nature really is? It is all very imperfect, but that is what makes it beautiful.

A 'perfect' leaf on my walk.
A 'perfect' leaf on my walk.

Of course, nature's beauty is fleeting and as I stopped to take a photo, I must have dropped this perfect leaf and I couldn't find it again.

Perfection and the lack thereof has been a recurring theme lately. It is something that keeps coming up in my world. Needless to say, it's been on my mind.

One of my favorite songs on my walking playlist is John Legend's "All of Me".  If you don't know it or want to listen again, you can see a version of it here (live version appropriate for all ages). "Cause all of me Loves all of you. Love your curves and all your edges All your perfect imperfections."

I was also thinking about a blog that I saw for the first time last night. A truly inspiring story about a woman's weight loss journey and finding love in herself and her imperfect body. Check out the story at I'mperfect Life.

The underlying theme: Our lives are never perfect, our relationships are never perfect, no matter what they look like from the outside.

Along the same lines- A country is never perfect, either.

No matter where you are, you have to take the good with the bad and find beauty in the imperfections, the frustrations, the day to day nuances that may drive you crazy (See my list of the Pros & Cons of Argentina Part 1Part 2!) You have to decide if those imperfections are a deal-breaker for you. If you stick it out, if you make the best of whatever imperfect situation or country, it can help grow resilience, an open mind and open heart.

This is not to say that you have to accept the way things are without changing (yourself, the situation, or both). Just remember to look for the beauty among the (seemingly more obvious) imperfections of the journey.

That is all. I am off to enjoy more of this absolutely perfect day.